After Abortion Support for Family and Friends

Not only the woman who has the abortion is affected by abortion. Our feelings are complex, and no two people respond the same way.

We know you may have thoughts and feelings you are struggling with, and your thoughts and feelings matter to us, too. We are happy to walk alongside you as you process your feelings around the abortion of a loved one. 

Are you struggling to connect with a loved one after her abortion? Do you feel guilt, shame, or embarrassment and don’t know who to talk to about this? Are you worried about a loved one after her abortion and unsure how to support her? Are you grieving the loss of what would have been your granchild or other family member? Do you feel guilty for feeling relieved that your friend or family member would not be raising a child? Are you concerned that you did not say enough to convince this person not to choose abortion, and now you feel at least partially responsible?

How We Can Help

You can call, email, or walk in to our center and schedule an appointment for yourself or yourself and a partner or loved one. You would work with a dedicated Care Coach who would support you for as long as you need. All sessions are client-directed, meaning we do not force you to disclose or discuss anything you do not feel comfortable with. Our Care Coaches are trained in trauma-informed counseling skills and will respect your agency and privacy throughout your sessions. All of our services are offered free of charge and are completely confidential.

You are also welcome to join our AACE Program and attend A Space to Mourn, an in-person event to grieve reproductive loss among others who have had similar experiences.